‘When
do I…?’ can be the question when one realises a personal lack of
understanding. This is especially apparent when faced by a very
capable opponent who you just do not know where to start; conscious
incompetence. Essentially it is the wrong question at the wrong time
(timing) but you hear many questions like this, where the answer is
‘I would not be in that situation if I was you’. Rarely is this
answer met by thanks! Regardless of the hole one has dug oneself in
to with desperation present. The answer in desperate times is to a)
run away, failing that b) fight to the death, perhaps hoping to make
the opponent’s victory Pyrrhic. The real answer is not to get into
desperate situations.
Luckily
the thoughts observations and actions of others through time have
been documented. So although desperate times may cause book burnings,
this is where answers and clues lie. One great book distilled from
the early civilised world of China albeit mostly when they were not
being that civilised, is The Art of War by Sun Zi. Just read it every
year and reflect on it and find out others reflections too, no
ifs, buts or maybes!
The
Art of War is compact and rich with clues. So the best strategy full
stop not just for timing, is to ‘win without fighting’, the
stages before war need to be done so well war is not necessary and
everyone (well at least you) gets what they want without blood shed.
Now this is a bit utopian and theoretical for mankind, but knowledge
of the peak helps understanding of all below, giving perspective. The
first question is: Do I have to…? This could be fight or any other
act do I have to? Is there a win/win option instead. Have I finished
with the preliminaries to this position?
The
second clue to timing from AoW (and other sources!) is that good
timing is the result of everything being done well. It is playing the
odds. Tai Chi Chuan like a lot of martial arts uses punches. But when
do you use the punch. Well the right time silly. So when is that?
It’s when it cannot fail to be effective. Some martial art(ist)s
(and the same pattern is everywhere) try to punch when it cannot
possible work, now sometimes it is a fake or a set up which we will
talk about later. These though are only needed if you have made
mistakes before. Bad you for not being perfect or even excellent.
Many of you have found with your children, pets friends and training
partners that they are easier to get, if you creep up behind them
when they are least expecting it. Well done you have learnt some
important elements (not all) of when to punch when you cannot miss.
It is wrong to hit these people just practicing the approach is fine
and with practice is even funny so when not all the elements are
right! If only predators in the wild had learnt this. Oh no wait a
minute they have this is how predators get their food. Some predators
do this even when facing their prey (opponent). For humans this will
mean that getting rid of the arms, which they annoyingly use to
defend themselves huh! Or being to their side or back. The time to
punch is when they are defenseless. So this is how an expert times
their actions, when they cannot fail. This is the pattern to timing
being so good at the major elements so that you are in a good
position to take an opportunity to act.
So
before expertise and much before choosing another option, or perhaps
you made a little mistake and are not in the ideal position you have
to set up a good position so a punch (action) can be more or less
effective. Some people learn early set ups, they say things that get
a response or show some slight of hand that catches people off guard
and they react making them selves vulnerable. The lesson in
opposition – do not be caught off guard or react to these set ups –
study them. So a good set up uses the opponents reactions to
situations to create an opportunity to attack. Most team sports have
basic tactics to get one defender on the own to divide and set up
conquer. Set ups can be choosing an environment where you have an
advantage or a fake to create reactions. The best set ups can be done
without exposing yourself, where even if they do not work they do not
set you up. Most areas many have set ups probably used daily in
business, personal, political and all other areas of life. Some are
natural, others sneaky and some well planed. You could categorise
these tactics and some are documented and taught in many areas.
Getting a handle on the general ideas that can be applied in many
areas is definitely useful.
So
really timing is the result of good preparation so you are always
ready, in a strong position. Negotiation and planning avoid the need
for timing failing that time your actions for when they cannot fail.
Your position and posture mean you are invulnerable and the opponent
cannot defend. If you have not organised yourself well lets say like
most people most of the time then it’s about set ups and traps that
you volunteer to fall into or set up yourself to increase the odds of
success. So do not ask me the best way to put out a fire, there are
better people than I, you could call them they have emergency numbers
world wide. Guess what they also have non emergency numbers and they
go round and give advice before a fire. They advise alarms, actions
in the event of fire and of course prevention. So be prepared but
also prevent fire but other bad situations too. The best fire is one
prevented. Now take this idea to other areas of life.
Another
physical situation is range. Here it’s again about positioning.
Often it’s about footwork to get to the right position/distance to
execute. The patterns are the general ideas of preparing well
including planning, learning, positioning, prioritising and many
other principles mentioned on this blog. When all this is done then
doing is easy. If it is not yet easy then raise the standards of your
learning, planning etc. till it is.